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Ruby Walk to D’Feet MND

The Ruby Walk to D’Feet MND took place in Canterbury on Sunday 6th October.

Under lowering skies, we hoped for a period without rain and our prayers were answered and our walk went ahead without a single drop of rain.

Brian and Hilary

This year is the 40th anniversary of the Motor Neurone Disease Association. To mark this event Brian Sackett and his sister Hilary Smith organised the Ruby Walk to D’Feet MND.  Both Brian and Hilary lost partners to MND, so it is a subject very close to their hearts.

Brian and Hilary hoped that 40 walkers would walk for 40 minutes and raise £40 in sponsorship, a target of £1600.

54 Walkers turned out on the day, walking for 40 minutes around the athletics track at Lifestyle Fitness in Canterbury, raising the astonishing sum of £3,113 in sponsorship.

The event started with a group photograph of all the Walkers by the Kentish Gazette, which we hope will be published in their next edition.

Walkers ready to start

Walkers came from all parts of East Kent and some walkers travelled from as far as the Isle of Sheppey.

Huge thanks to Brian and Hilary for organising this excellent event,  especially thanks to all 54 walkers who jointly raised £3,113 in sponsorship to date, a fabulous amount which will be used to support people living with MND in East Kent and to contribute towards researching a cure for this devastating disease. 

We would also like to thank Lifestyle Fitness for allowing us to use their track and to Kentish Gazette and the KM Group for their support and especially to everyone who contributed monies towards this great fund-raising event

If anyone has any sponsorship remaining to be paid, please send your cheque made out to MNDA East Kent to 171 Percy Avenue, Broadstairs, Kent, CT10 3LE or alternately to Just Giving at https://www.justgiving.com/fundraising/rubywalk2019  If you use the Just Giving Link please indicate this is sponsor monies for the Ruby Walk.

Anyone wishing to donate can also use the Just Giving link above.

You can see Brian and Hilary give an interview to Kent Online.  It is very moving and worth a read:  https://www.kentonline.co.uk/canterbury/news/i-thought-it-can-t-strike-our-family-again-how-wrong-was-i-210322/  this link also takes you to the KMTV interview.

Support Meeting – Battle of Britain Memorial

We are delighted our next Support Meeting will be at the Battle of Britain Memorial, Capel Le Ferne on Saturday 19th October.

The meeting will start at 11.00. We will enjoy tea, coffee and cake

It promises to be a great meeting and we look forward to a good turnout and of course wonderful weather.

The address is The Hunters Lodge, Battle of Britain Memorial, New Dover Road, (B2011), Capel Le Ferne, CT18 7JJ

Everybody affected by MND or has been affected by MND is welcome.

Ela’s Story

I am writing this article for publication. 

It is for people with Motor Neurone Disease (MND) to give courage, hope and positive determination for others to live with this condition.  I don’t like to call it a disease it such a horrible word for people to say Martin had MND for five years.

Martin and I would often start reading articles in the magazine and stop reading them as it would often be about people who had left us, I don’t want to sound disrespectful to anyone, but we found that extremely hard reading.

Martin Miller

We wanted to open the magazine and find positive stories, uplifting articles, tips and guides on how to manage life with MND.

Articles about people’s adventures, ideas that people might have and hobbies that people can do despite MND.

We would often start reading articles only to shut the magazine so I wanted to write an article that was uplifting and if only one person gained from it, I would be happy

At the beginning everyone who has MND knows what it is like, so I’m not even going to go there. I was racking my brain every minute for something to help.  It came to me acupuncture may be beneficial, now this may not work for everyone, but in our experience, it was so helpful.

We went to see this doctor in Canterbury, who was extremely professional.  You can imagine our lives were upside down and we could discuss nothing.  It seemed we could only talk about getting calls from hospitals, from nurses, from the hospice; all this at the most stressful time.  We felt situation was helpless. Our emotions were so high, and everything seemed to be collapsing in our world.

We went to this Chinese doctor, who lead Martin into the back of his practice, and I waited in the front, not knowing what to expect.  When Martin came back after half an hour, he was smiling which made me smile.  Just the way he was different.

We left and when we got to the car, I was asking millions of questions about what the Doctor had done.  Martin told me he had put these needles around arts of his body, telling him he could not cure MND, but that he could but all the emotions Martin was feeling in a box and put them to sleep in the back of his mind.

Having shut the lid on the box, from that day our lives changed we could talk about everything freely without having a breakdown.  The positivity was astonishing, and we started living with MND.   Our lives were no longer taken over by MND.

Martin continued to see him for a few months until it was no longer necessary for us to go.  We decided that we would live each day as we would have done without MND and we did just that!

We often went fishing, it took our minds somewhere else, outside in the fresh air laughing and having fun.  When Martin could no longer fish, I started to fish and my excitement and laughter when catching a fish, made Martin laugh.  He said it made no difference who was fishing he found watching me, so engaged in it, fun for him.

That the sort of guy he was to be able to find hobbies and activities that keeps your mind focused is the best medicine in the world.  It takes you out of your thoughts and allows you to think of other things.   It gave us the strength to carry on as normal.  We were not hiding away from MND, this was the therapy which worked for us

I’m not saying it was all rosy, there were the hospital visits and the consultant visits which in the end we stopped attending.  Martin thought them a waste of time, all doom and gloom.  Our experience was not positive, but this article is about hope, courage and determination.

The time came when Martin needed a wheelchair, challenging for most but not content with the wheelchairs available, which would just about go over a stone when outside.   A friend put up a fundraising page and Martin had the best outdoor wheelchair available and a van with ramps.  He would sit in the back and I would drive, and we went on the beach, up hills in the mud this wheelchair went everywhere.  Martin could still do whatever he wanted to do and go anywhere he wanted.

As Martin’s condition progressed, we sold the van got a car with a portable car hoist and Martin sat in the front still doing what we wanted to do.  He would spend hours looking for stuff on the Internet so we could continue do what we wanted.  

Over time we changed our hobbies to the garden which became our sanctuary.  I bought trees and shrubs.  All sorts of planning went on and we always kept busy.

I could write pages and pages more.  I wanted to write this article to give you an insight into Martin’s world with MND.

It was never a walk in the park.   We coped by being together, doing everything together, having many interests.  Keeping one step ahead motivated by love, caring for one another, smiling, laughing reading books out loud, listening to music, having a beer, smoking a cigarette, sitting out in the snow, and standing in the wind because you like the wind in your face.

Still facing forward even when you are ill you are still you!  MND cannot and will not change that.

Ela 

A thoroughly enjoyable Spring Lunch

East Kent MNDA Group help their annual Spring Lunch on Saturday 27th April at the Yarrow Hotel, Broadstairs.

There were 36 diners and we all enjoyed a well prepared and presented 3 course meal by the staff of the Yarrow Hotel.  The food was excellent and heartily enjoyed by everyone present.

Diners at the Spring Lunch 2019

We had the honour of having Richard Coleman, the Chairman of our Board of Trustees as our guest.  Richard gave a short speech about the history of the association and where it is going in the future, which was very well received.

Richard made presentation to Katy Styles and Clive Hudson for service to the association.

We had been donated a 4 Ball Golf Prize for Goodwood and we duly auctioned this.  Pat McCabe won the bidding with a donation of £100.00.

Adrian Powell made an impassioned plea for diners to either join our walk to D’Feet MND on May 18th or get their friends to do so. See www.mnda-eastkent.org.uk/walk19

We ended with a raffle, which is always fun.  It is a joy to watch the anticipation of our young diners. Thanks to all our members who contributed prizes.

Our amazing raffle

Thanks to everyone for coming and special thanks to the staff and management of the Yarrow Hotel, who made us feel very welcome. f

Support Meeting 9th February 2019

The local association held its regular support meeting on Saturday 9th February at Thanington Neighbourhood Resource Centre Canterbury.

The meeting was well attended by those living with MND, their carers, association volunteers and friends.

We learnt about the role of Association Visitors, how they can support people with MND and their carers/families. 

We also learnt about the role of a trustee of the national MND association. How it was important to support research via funding and to constantly highlight to MPs and the wider media the difficulties and frustration that people with MND have in accessing benefits.

Clive, the local association chairmen gave an update on monies recently raised. He also spoke about how the local association spent its funds.

One of the issues discussed was how to access priority services with the major utility companies, such as being able to have an emergency electrical supply during power cuts so that ventilators will still work.

A variety of  homemade cakes were enjoyed by those present.

Fabulous Christmas Lunch

We had 53 diners at our annual Christmas Lunch at the Yarrow Hotel, Broadstairs on Saturday 8th December.

Diners waiting for the first course to be served

We had an excellent meal, beautifully served by the staff of the hotel, who as ever were excellent.

During the course of the lunch Katy Styles MNDA Trustee awarded a 25 year award to Hazel Izzard (Watts) for her service to MNDA in East Kent over the past quarter century.  Hazel has retired from our group  and we gave her a beautiful bouquet in recognition of the incredible work she has done to support people living with MND in East Kent.

Hazel and Katy with Certificate
Hazel with bouquet of flowers

As in previous years we had a superb raffle, with prizes being bought along by many diners and we had lots of fun drawing the raffle and the children present certainly had fun collecting various prizes.

Raffle prizes

We would like to thank the Yarrow Hotel and their wonderful staff, all raffle donors and everyone who attended for making it such a splendid lunch.

We wish everyone a wonderful Christmas and a good 2019.

AGM Conference at East Midlands Airport, Derby 13/14 th July 2018

The MND Association AGM was extra special for me this year as it makes a full year since I was nominated to be a trustee for the Association.  I have now done a full round of Board Meetings, Committee meetings and project task group meetings.  

Why go to the AGM? 

The AGM is a place to meet up with old and new friends, other volunteers and staff from our MND community, together with exhibitors and speakers.

I find that there is always something new to learn, whether it is from another Branch or Group, or finding out about the research being done, or the equipment on offer. One big hit was the virtual reality headsets which Mark, my husband tried out. One was a general virtual reality demonstrating all of its features including being in a helicopter, in a hot air balloon and giving lots of different views and landscapes. He particularly enjoyed the car racing around the Le Mans circuit. 

I attended a workshop around Legacy Fundraising which was one aspect of the Association’s work that I knew little about. 

Even if you can’t attend to you can follow the event Live on Facebook and it is always nice hearing the messages read out from those back at home, watching the event unfold. Here’s the link to this year’s AGM and research speech. https://www.mndassociation.org/videos/

The afternoon speaker was Professor Martin Turner who was there to speak about his bio -marker research at Oxford. Something close to my heart. I have been part of that research, sitting in multiple scanners for many hours as a healthy control for Professor Turner’s research. I was very interested to hear how that particular research was going.  

I always come away thinking how much the Association has done in the previous year, as highlighted by the Impact Report and I am always grateful to our many supporters, fundraisers, volunteers, campaigners and staff who all help get us there. The Impact Report is here https://www.mndassociation.org/about-us/a-strategic-framework-for-the-future/impact-report/

 Next year maybe I’ll see you there.

Katy Styles, Trustee MNDA and MNDA East Kent

KM Dragon Boat Races

On Sunday 1st July, MNDA East Kent entered a team in the KM Charity Group Dragon Boat Race. Our team was made up of members of the Lawrence family from Folkestone. The team were entered into three races, impressively winning two and coming second in the third race.

In our final race, we were pitched head to head with the team from MNDA Mid Kent,   who were the fastest team on the day.  It was a very close race, we managed to beat Mid Kent but due to their faster times in earlier races they went through to the finals. Congratulations to the team of MNDA Mid Kent!